That was an excellent article. Thanks for the reference. I'm going to chew on it a while and either respond here or maybe start a new thread. The authors raise a number of points, as you say, that are directly relevant to writing fantasy stories.
m male. I don’t find that Girl power threatens my masculinity in any way, or even that many men under 65 use it as a derogatory term. 20 years ago I had a hairdresser that was also an international judo champion. She could’ve beaten me easily, anytime, in a fight (or in cutting hair). But I never felt my masculinity was threatened, never less of a man. She had worked hard, very hard, to be that good. Isn’t that what Girl power is? Excelling in a previously male dominated arena?
So now we have to know what constitutes stereotypical male power behavior, so we can avoid having the female lead behave in that way.
In some discussions like these, I agree. This, however, is a forum on writing. When it comes to writing, I tend to think of individuals. Indeed, we are often writing about the exceptional individual--not merely the talented or overpowered, but even the one-dimensional or the stereotype. Characters in stories are not like "humanity" in the abstract, in much the same way that dialog in a story is unlike real-life conversation.