I sometimes think that this subject is painfully artificial (some will think I only see it that way because I'm male...and maybe they're right but I can't help that). The thing is, we are what we are, and while I'm all for reconstruction - up to the point of equality but not beyond - I'm also prey to my own bio-chemistry and fundamental drives. If there are breasts about, I will see them. I'll do my best not to stare, but I'm hard wired to notice things like that and won't pretend otherwise. Too much self-emasculation in this world for my liking.