WyrdMystic
Inkling
Why would you think a good relatable character requires conscious sympathy by the viewer/reader? I'd actually say, those characters which illicit that response without our thinking on them, may well be the most powerful.
Agreed - that's the nature of communication. It happens in real life. You meet someone and automatically like them, get on with them right from the get go, but its only when you get to know each other that you find out how why.