The Blue Lotus
Auror
Thanks Ben and Ireth,
I'm back but I am still a bit out of sorts.
Looking forward to meeting all the new people and trying to shake what I have seen of late from my mind.
May you all be blessed.
~BL~
PS. Just a random thought but; I find it really funny that primary care givers who are not related to the PT can not get some type of assistance with the processing of events afterwards... Somehow that just seems wrong, not to mention foolhardy.
If others out there end up feeling like I have been feeling after caring for not only my friend's husband but her too; I can see why most people avoid lending a hand. These are people I love, care for and watching that was not easy, trying to keep my friend from falling apart was worse, I know the medical stuff inside out, but I still feel like I failed her and him not to mention some higher power if you will, I failed somehow... I can't place a finger on it but it is what it is.
I'm back but I am still a bit out of sorts.
Looking forward to meeting all the new people and trying to shake what I have seen of late from my mind.
May you all be blessed.
~BL~
PS. Just a random thought but; I find it really funny that primary care givers who are not related to the PT can not get some type of assistance with the processing of events afterwards... Somehow that just seems wrong, not to mention foolhardy.
If others out there end up feeling like I have been feeling after caring for not only my friend's husband but her too; I can see why most people avoid lending a hand. These are people I love, care for and watching that was not easy, trying to keep my friend from falling apart was worse, I know the medical stuff inside out, but I still feel like I failed her and him not to mention some higher power if you will, I failed somehow... I can't place a finger on it but it is what it is.
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