BronzeOracle
Sage
What shocked me more than some of the accounts I've read is the statistics. Europe and America are considered as civilized and modern countries, there are issues but everything is largely ok. That's the image I have, it is then particularly confronting to read that a third or more of the women in our society are submitted to rape or assault at least once throughout their lifetime. And a vast majority of them never talks about it.
I remember reading 1 in 4. As a guy its pretty confronting, something we just don't need to think about in our daily lives. It's not on our radar that our date/partner could harm us or others.
I wouldn't assume that our civilised/modern societies are all OK - I spent 2 years working in India and when I came back I was amazed at how sad and stressed out people were in Australia, who by comparison to Indians were incredibly wealthy. This is not at all to say that things were rosy in India (forget the 'noble savage' or 'poor but happy' stereotype), there was a lot of stress and sadness there too. I remember coming back to Australia and feeling the materialism like an almost tangible presence, it was amazing, then after 2 weeks I got used to it and didn't notice it anymore. While things are much better in Australia materially and education wise (we have free healthcare), we have a long long way to go. Its only recently in Australia that mental illness and sexual assault have been brought into the limelight.