Eh don't worry. I accused the comment of being arrogant, as we (western) Euros had enough post-colonial wars of our own at the time to hammer home the folly of war. Nothing personal beyond that. You should know by now I think you're a good blokeWell...I wish I had revised and unextended my remarks to exclude the part your responded to... But...
I did say that I thought it might be just a US perspective, that it 'seemed' to me that Viet Nam was more shaping, and I think it was for the US (to the regard of not idealizing war). Extending that to the west, was likely US bias. I thought the comment carried enough of a questioning tone, and speculation that it was maybe just my home country perspective to avoid accusations of arrogance. Guess not...
Still, I think it is true that Veit Nam did more than WWI and WWII to assuage the US population 'maybe not our leaders', from thinking war a glorious endeavor.
But you know....stupidity combined with arrogance and a huge ego will get you a long way... So I must be going places.