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Cool blog post. I love long lived or immortal races for exactly the reasons you mentioned.
I think the time perspective is one of the keys here. For example, in The World, there is an Elf-analogue (they call themselves Teor), but I can't think of any stories I've written where they appear yet.
They are certainly the most different of the races I know about. For one, they do live long lifespans. Very long. Daine are, when compared with Men, "functionally immortal", quite capable of living a thousand or more years, and some perhaps ten times that. I mean, if you had a chum you hang out with in the pool hall who can regale you with stories of not only that little fracas at Hastings but also the time that Rascally Roman came snooping around, cos he was there both times, that's pretty much immortal for all intents and purposes.
Daine are like that; Teor even more so, as there are some still in the East who can regale one with tales of a world so ancient you might think she was just making it all up...
Time, ya; that's a key. They are, in a lesser way, kind of like God. God sees all of material history, from the big bang all the way
up to the big crunch and every event in it as one event, all the grand stretches, all the lives of Men and Dolphins, all the empires, all the moments of enlightenment and fall from grace are all one. Humans don't generally see this way. The Past is increasingly murky and mythical; the Future is an unknown; the Present is where we are and let's just be content with that. Teor, far from being anything like all knowing, experience and understand their own existence that way. A Teor who has travelled far and lived through many ages of Time, that one sees all those events as one event, whereas a Man of his acquaintance can only hope to understand 95% of that visceral, emotional, experience as disconnected history.
I think a good rough analog to Elvish thinking is the (US) car commercial where the dad picks up a crayon from the back seat of the car and sees his daughter when she's about six, come running across the yard; and then a hospital ID bracelet, and he sees her at thirteen or so after a sports injury; and at the end, he gives her the key and she's probably eighteen or so and off to uni. A parent, I think, sees his own kid as both little umpkins and grown up girl all at once. This is something like how an Elf understands all the long years of his own experience.
Another key, at least for me and long-lived races, is sorrow. The long life of a Daine or a Teor are sure to be full of many happy moments. Falling in love (even if it ìs for the twentieth time), the birth of a child, the conclusion of long and unhappy war. But tempering that is the long sorrow of places lost, things perished and people gone; of a world that has changed in its externals and can never return to its vision as first experienced.
For example, when a Teor speaks of the sea as raurumwollio, his word at once leads one to think he is speaking of the continuous rolling of the waves crashing upon the warth. For, indeed, raurum means a roaring, crashing sound, as of thunder or waves or even a rockslide in the hill country; and wowollio gives the sense of repetition, of doing a thing over again. Yet however lovely and appropriate one might think such a word, for another Teor, its meanings run much deeper. For them this single word contains not only the sound of the roaring waves but also the long memory of the Distant Sea as it was in the time of their youth far away and deep sorrow and longing for lands long ago washed away and drowned deep under those rolling, roaring waves and indeed the knowledge of the loss of kith and kin who have taken to ships and sailed away upon those waves to Donwareccwalhya, the Land Beyond the Sea which none may now attain; or who have wandered some other road to some other destiny. It is a sense of sundering as well as continuing; a mournful feeling within and set against contentment.
It's kind of like nostalgia, that sense of longing for times past, but is sadder and broader in connotation. Even though a Daine or Teor himself has changed and grown through the course of his life, there is always that part of the heart that rests unchanging and apart from the fits and starts, the lability of existence outside and the change of the world. Men certainly feel this way too, like when they go back to their old neighbourhood and find it's all Portoricans now, and all the Italians have gone away...but the time scales involved are much longer and burden of such memory the more dolorous.
In fact, as a Daine gets older and this burden becomes ever more onerous, he risks dying from the weight of it! His body may be hale, but his heart and his spirit become weighed down and sick. Eventually, he'll just sleep and won't wake up again in this world.
Is "I think humans with wings are cool, and developing their differing biology, culture, gender roles and society is my idea of fun" a good enough reason? lol.
Absolutely!