This article is fascinating. Maybe a little inflammatory, but she makes some good points and I found it entertaining.
I hate Strong Female Characters
I hate Strong Female Characters
When I talk about this, people offer synonyms; better, less limiting ways of saying the same thing. What about “effective female characters”, for instance? But it is not enough to redefine the term. It won’t do to add maybe a touch more nuance but otherwise carry on more or less as normal. We need an entirely new approach to the problem, which means remembering that the problem is far more than just a tendency to show female characters as kind of drippy. We need get away from the idea that sexism in fiction can be tackled by reliance on depiction of a single personality type, that you just need to write one female character per story right and you’ve done enough.
I think the best way to avoid these pitfalls is to think in terms of the individual character rather than demographics. When writing I don't ask myself "would a woman do/say this?" I ask myself "what would this individual do?"To hell with demographics. Be true to the character.
I read this article by Anna Gunn who plays Skyler White, main character Walter White's wife, on Breaking Bad. I thought this may be relevant to the discussion because Skyler is widely hated by a community of fans. Apparently, the hatred of the character has leaked over into hatred of the actress. I find this par for the course when it comes to the internet, but I've always found Skyler to be a reasonable character that doesn't back down from adversity. She doesn't take the downward spiral of Walter lying down. It seems other people think she's a "shrieking, hypocritically harpy" (a quote from one such fan).
Worth a read. May contain some spoilers.
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/08/24/opinion/i-have-a-character-issue.html?smid=tw-nytimes