rejection letters

Discussion in 'Publishing' started by Lavender, Jul 20, 2011.

  1. Lavender

    Lavender Master

    (not sure if this is in right section, but I'm new so don't tell me off too much if it's not lol)

    Anyway, if you have had any in the past, what was your first rejection letter like and how did you feel about it?
    I got my first when I was around ten. My mum and I sent some poetry off to an agency or publishing house...(it was something like Big Foot publishing...something along those lines) and the agent who wrote back was named Rosemary Canter. She was very pleasant and told me to send more work when I was older.
    I still treasure that letter, even now. I agree with something I read somewhere that J.K Rowling said. She expressed how even her first rejection letter made her feel like a proper writer. It still makes me feel like that to this day!

    However, I also understand how it can become very wearing and make a writer feel jaded after receiving rejection after rejection.

    Did you feel pleased that you had at least got some sort of reply from a publisher when that first rejection letter landed on the doormat? Or did it make you feel as though you failed?

    And for those members who still have not received a rejection letter, how do you imagine it might make you feel if you get one?

    Just interested to know :)
  2. Map the Dragon

    Map the Dragon Mystagogue

    For me, rejection letters have been entirely impersonal and formulaic. And, rightfully so...for the most part. I can only imagine the submission desk, piled with thousands of hopefuls. Wading through that must be a nightmare. I once sent a story off for consideration. The letter traveled most of the width of the country. Three days from the time I sent it, I had a rejection letter (more of a slip) in the mail. I was pretty much "Sorry, but your peice (fill in the blank) does not meet our current needs" or some such. I doubt they even read it.

    Stephen King, in his craft memoir "On Writing" talked extensively about the matter. He hung the letters on his wall with a tack for motivation. The tack became a nail, and the nail a railroad spike. For giggles, after he was famous, he dug up an old short story that was rejected in a particular nasty rejection letter. In finding a copy of that pititful excuse for a narrative, he shipped it off to the very no-name rag-mag that rejected him those many years ago. They were elated to put the story in their publication immediately that cycle with his name plastered across the cover.
  3. Lavender

    Lavender Master

    I'd love to read that book, I may have to buy it soon. I think perhaps my last letter was so gentle was due to my age...perhaps they thought sending a blunt rejection letter to a ten year old wasn't quite fair!
  4. Map the Dragon

    Map the Dragon Mystagogue

    Believe it or not, I've actually read many, many books and shorter works on the craft of writing. Stephen King's "On Writing" is by far the best. He addresses the very things that we concern ourselves with and discuss here on these forums. The memoir parts are quite amusing, but his discussion throughout concerns getting published, grammar, rejection letters, agents, dialogue, adverb usage, style, voice, marketing, and numerous other things I'm forgetting. I recommend to everyone on here to read this before they even pick up their next fantasy novel.

    If you want to be a writer, write. But do other things study the craft. Reading this book is one way to do that.
  5. TWErvin2

    TWErvin2 Dark Lord

    I've gotten plenty of rejection letters. Most of those were form rejections, although sometimes the wording can disguise it some.

    Rejection is part of being a writer and submitting your work for publication. You either develop skin that allows you to let it drip off of you like water on wax paper or you can get caught up on the frustration and wondering why they didn't accept it. Always remember, they're passing on (or rejecting) the piece, not you as a person or even as a writer.

    Rejections can come for more reasons than the work wasn't up to the market's standard. Maybe they are just full (have all the slots for the current and next issue filled). Maybe they just accepted a story similar to yours. Maybe it was good, but just didn't fit the market exactly--editors didn't feel it would meet their reader's expectations. Maybe the queue or desk was just too full to deal with and form rejected without even looking.

    Often you'll never know. When you do get a personal note as to why, maybe it'll give you insight for modifying the story before sending to the next market. But maybe it's not good advice for the next market on the submission list. The writer has to decide.

    Age should have little to do with the decision (or how they treat you). They would have no clue as to your age unless you tell the market.

    Whatever you do, don't give up. The story I listed in the NOvels and Stories section that I had published recently took a while and many efforts to find a home. It even was accepted by a very good paying market--than ended up closing before publishing it, and it got released. So I went to the next one, and they thought it was a great story. Before all that "Accelerated Justice" got several form rejections.

    And after you write, edit/revise, research a market and submit a story, don't wait around. Start working on writing the next story.

    But, back to the original question. The first rejection? I was disappointed but just sent out the story again, and again, and it found a home eventually. I think the more you write and submit and find rejections in the mail or the email inbox, the easier they are to move past and continue forward.
  6. Jenna St. Hilaire

    Jenna St. Hilaire Journeyman

    I've gotten exactly three rejection letters, after sending out exactly four queries. (The fourth has been silent long enough to consider a rejection.) And to be very, very honest, I find every last one difficult to get over. It took me months to write that query, and I've polished every line of those first few pages of my novel to as near perfection as I can get. So I look at each kindly-worded rejection letter and think "All that hard work, and it's STILL NOT GOOD ENOUGH."

    And then I remind myself that agents are stretched to the limit of how many clients they can handle... and that I discovered after submitting to one that she already had a client with a similar writing style... and that just because someone says they take fantasy doesn't mean they want to read about a world in which London and New York do not currently exist, so maybe some of those others just didn't want my kind of fantasy. And I think of the lovely things that my critique partner--who had no trouble ripping early drafts of my query letter to shreds--said about my little tale. There's always a way to stay positive. ;)
  7. Telcontar

    Telcontar Staff Moderator

    Ah, rejection letters. I'm building a tidy little collection. My first one(s), though, were from submitting a short story to various magazines. I got one or two that didn't seem like form letters - one actually stated that it was not, it was from one of the subeditors asking me to submit again in three months for their next issue (it was rejected from that one, too). The story was never accepted, though I got bored with submitting it after twenty or so. Every now and again I give it another try.

    I'm also now collecting literary agent rejections for my first novel. :)
  8. Joe the Gnarled

    Joe the Gnarled Mystagogue

    I wish I could remember the author’s name, but he is well published now and used to use his rejection letters as wall paper in his study. I thought that was a good motivator to stick it to the man.
  9. Kaellpae

    Kaellpae Grandmaster

    I look forward to my first rejection letters. And of course my first acceptance.
  10. Map the Dragon

    Map the Dragon Mystagogue

    Well, keep us posted. AND...start sending your stuff!
  11. Argentum

    Argentum Lore Master

    I got two rejection letters, both online. It was kinda sad, because you send those queries hoping that perhaps THIS time will be different, though I know I haven't even gotten started yet. I plan to get busy soon, perfect the query letter, and send out a flood more
  12. Motley

    Motley Master

    All my rejection letters have been form letters really, except one where the editor of an online mag actually said things... complimentary things... about my piece of flash before apologizing because they couldn't use it. At least I could tell he actually read it.
  13. fcbkid15

    fcbkid15 Journeyman

    I've never gotten a rejection, for I've never sent my work out before. But I feel like even if you do get one, it wouldn't be as bad since it is written form. If they had to come to my house themselves and tell me they don't want me, I'd feel awful. Its much better getting a letter from someone you don't even know. I mean it cant be as bad as when you ask someone out and they reject you. And hey! If you finally make it big, you can go make the people who rejected you sorry for rejecting you.
  14. RedRidingHood

    RedRidingHood Apprentice

    My first rejection letter had the title of my work misspelled. They must have really hated it! It's hard being rejected, but the more it happens, the more you get used to it. It's never personal and many times it doesn't even have to do with your work being good or bad. It's all a matter of finding the right publisher and learning to look at your work from a third person perspective.
  15. Kelise

    Kelise Scribal Lord

    I've only applied electronically to short story anthologies, twice. My second rejection said:

    'Thank you again for your submission. Unfortunately 'A Silent Relief' is not quite what I'm after for the anthology, but I wish you the very best in finding it a home.'

    So they were really quite nice. The first time (same group) said 'Regretfully, I don't have a place for your story.'

    So I feel like I'm moving up a bit hehe
  16. mythique890

    mythique890 Mystagogue

    I'm about to send in my first-ever submission in the next few days. Just waiting for a critique from a friend, then I'll revise and submit. I'm kind of nervous, but not really. I imagine it will be rejected, since its my first try, but I'm excited to get a story out there. Like someone said, it will make me feel like a "real" writer.

    I'm trying to set yearly goals for myself. This year it was to submit something. Next year I want to set a goal to have something accepted (I'm not holding my breath, but it doesn't hurt to have goals).

    I'm not looking forward to doing all the research that goes into finding the right agents/editors to submit my novel to... something I'm also hoping to accomplish next year.
  17. Dreamer

    Dreamer Apprentice

    I have not received any rejection letters to date, but only because I have not had the guts to go ahead and send my work in. I have a few pieces that I would like to send in to see if there is a chance of getting it published. I
    did write a poem once, and I sent it in to a celebrity who has a show that is related to that particular piece. I
    received an email saying that he was currently out of town but that she (his assistant) would be making a note for him to review it. I never heard back after that, so I guess in a way maybe I did get a rejection letter, lol.
  18. Hëradïn

    Hëradïn Mystagogue

    I just woke up to another rejection letter... but it is ok, I noticed somethings I wanted to tweak only a few days ago with it. So, I'll keep going.
  19. Qfantasy

    Qfantasy Apprentice

    I've had a lot of rejection letters. Mostly they were just standard letters that were sent out to everyone they rejected, but a couple of times there were a sentence or two written in pen. The one that sticks out in my mind, read: "Nicely written, but I'm not convinced I could sell this. Sorry, good luck."

    I stopped sending my work out for a while but kept on writing and honing my skills, now I've decided to self-publish by way of ebook. It's an exploding market and, of course, has zero cost apart from any advertising you decide to pay for.
  20. SeverinR

    SeverinR Valar Lord

    Went to hear a lit.agent speak last night,
    he mentioned reject letters.

    Each agent has a group of rejection form letters, simply a number on your submission tells the mail clerk which
    letter you have earned. The sig is even digitized.

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