It's possible to be completely honest while at the same time respectful. It's called tact.
To be tactful you must be able to exercise judgment, choosing how you say things to get the full point across while still maintaining a level of respect for another. Representing yourself and your viewpoints in a tactful manner will always garner better results when trying to defend your position or attempting persuasion.
Tactful expression is an extremely valuable skill, and in conjunction with ZA's prior post, requires intelligent thought & consideration for others thought before speaking.
Even in cases where you may not respect a person, tact will always win out. It's the choice between composure & class versus rule by emotion & demagogue.
To be tactful you must be able to exercise judgment, choosing how you say things to get the full point across while still maintaining a level of respect for another. Representing yourself and your viewpoints in a tactful manner will always garner better results when trying to defend your position or attempting persuasion.
Tactful expression is an extremely valuable skill, and in conjunction with ZA's prior post, requires intelligent thought & consideration for others thought before speaking.
Even in cases where you may not respect a person, tact will always win out. It's the choice between composure & class versus rule by emotion & demagogue.
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